Image courtesy of Leon B. Dista

It has been a few weeks since my last blog post as I have been busy with my own stuff and getting myself back to healthy conditions due to the change of weather. Today, I’m going to share with you a great tip that I have stumble upon during a quarrel with my own family member. Most of you may have quarrel over some matters with your own family members no matter whether it is small or big. For my case, it is over the issue of our home’s internet connection that happened a few weeks ago. My sister has accidentally switch off the main power supply of the cable modem and thus resulted to a reset to the router main configuration. This caused the whole internet access of our home to cut off and we have to call our router service provider to reset the router.

Usually, when things goes wrong, people will start to point finger at who has created the problem and this happened in my own family too. My brother was angry and blamed my sister for switching off the main power supply which was always on. While my sister start pushing the blame to me, saying she had consulted me before switching it off. I was fed up with her as I told her not to switch off the lights as I was reading and she thought I told her to switch off. This kind of miscommunication has created a lot of conflicts before and I was really sick of it. The funny thing is what my brother and sister want is to get the internet back to action so they can use it to do what they want. However, they did not see the main part of the issue and start throwing flare around which I feel is very unnecessary.

This lesson has allowed me to learn interesting aspect about human beings and in the end, I’m the one who managed to fix the internet connection back to it’s original working ability. Although I was pissed off at that moment, I took the initiative  to try to solve the problem at hand instead. After solving the problems, everyone is happy without any quarrels. Therefore, I urge everyone who is reading this blog to be more aware of yourself and others when handling any situations. Is there a must to feel angry? Is feeling angry or sad going to solve your problems, if they are not going to help, put them aside first and think of solutions to help solve your problems instead.

Cheers
Javier
Feeling Great

Fisherman’s Wharf

Macau Grand Prix Museum

With my Dear at Venetian Main Lobby

Ruins of St Paul Macau

Tang Cheng

Happy New Year to everyone who visit this blog, this is a new year 2010 and I will like to update some progress along the way. Recently in late December 2009, I went to Hong Kong, Macau and Zhu Hai for a 5 days 4 nights holiday and it was my first time taking a flight overseas. When I start to think back about the past 1 year, I realized that I have actually grown quite a bit as 2009 was the first year that I stepped out my home country, Singapore. Once the plane starts to take off, I started to panic as this was my first time sitting on an airplane but once I thought of my desired travel lifestyle, I started to feel better. Sitting on the airplane allowed me to experience what Tony Robbins had mentioned before in his seminar that an airplane took so much energy to take off and due to the weather conditions, they have to adjust the flight in order to reach the destination. If you are aware of what I’m actually trying to get you, you will understand that we have to take massive actions and adjust our plans along our journey to success in order to reach our destination.

A few things that I enjoyed during this overseas trip were the food and cold weather, the temperature over there were from 8 – 18 Degree Celsius which I could not experience in Singapore. When the last day of my holiday, I started to realize that this is actually the lifestyle that I always desired with no worries about work or money and able to travel around freely to new countries to explore the new places with my loved ones.

One interesting thing that happened when I came back in Singapore was that I found that my CPA commission had increased in profits during my trip which I have left my campaign untouched during the 5 days. Now, I start to see some consistent real profits coming in and I will update here again once that amount become more significant. This overseas trip has allowed me to see new things and opportunities in my journey to success and I become more clear of what I want in my life.

Before I end this post, I will like to write down my 3 main promises that I want to meet in Year 2010.

1) Prepare and participate in a 42KM Marathon.

(Have signed up a 16KM North East Run recently and will take part more along the year)

2) Read at least 15 self-help books

(Have to restart my morning reading habit again)

3) Make a consistent 4 figure income online and at least a 5 figure for one month

(Have to put in more effort and work on my belief to make this works for myself)

Lastly, a happy new year to all my readers and all the best in your journey to success too.

Cheers
Javier

P.S. Remember to take massive actions and adjust your flight accordingly along your journey to success.