The time right now is about 2am and I’m feeling very glad and happy as I managed to learn something great in my life recently. I have been reading Robert Kiyosaki’s Increase Your Financial IQ book and there wrote a very interesting concept about whenever you solve your personal financial problems, you will gain some financial IQ in yourself and the more problems you solve, the more financial knowledge you will gain in life and the richer you will become. I did not really grab this concept well until something happen in my own personal relationship with my girlfriend. I have been persuing my own journey to success and I did not really realize that she has been feeling neglected by me in some way as our mindset seems to drift apart. Personally, I thought that our relationship has been very strong as we have been together for more than 3 years and she has been very understanding on me to whatever I have been doing. However, our mindset seems to drift apart as she tends to become busy with her stuff and I was busy persuing my own personal journey. I did not understand why I start to feel that she don’t seems to understand that I have been trying hard to make a better future for us and although we did not quarrel, there’s a slient guessing going on between both of us.
The slient guessing caused both of us to feel insecured and emotionally affected. However, when both of us sit down together to discuss about the matter, the dark clouds seems to clear itself after the rain. What I’m trying to get here is both of us did not avoid the problem in our relationship and really discuss about it. This helps to clear out each other guessing and misunderstanding. On the other hand, we also managed to strengthen our relationship as both of us really say out what is in our mind that keep on bothering us. This relationship lesson taught me a very meaningful lesson in life as we should not avoid our problems when we face them in life, we will be able to learn a new meaning and grow ourselves along the way. Please remember that a problem unsolved does not mean that it will solve by itself or others so make sure whenever you are faced with a problem or hardship, faced it without fear and don’t avoid it as solving it will help to grow our knowledge in our journey to success.
The 2 rings above has been named the Ring of Growth by me and was bought to replaced the previous lost ring that I have with my dear. The Ring of Growth will grow together with us to solve the future problems we have as a couple and will continue to bring more learning in our journey to success as she is one of my driving force in life to create a better future. Therefore, I will have my journey of success with her together as she provides the meaning and reasons for what I have been striving for.
Cheers
Javier
P.S. Are you facing any problems in life? If you are, faced it without fear and the light will brighten your journey along the way.
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